Re-entry into the real world after a conference #typeacon
I’ve been to a few conferences this year (several for work. Two have been blog conferences.) I left Atlanta less than 24 hours ago, following Type-A Parent Conference, and the re-entry process has not been easy. I know a lot of others are dealing with the same side effects, so I’ve come up with a few things that might help us get back into the real world and on with our lives (until next year’s conference, of course.)
Sleep. Go to bed early because you are going to have to recover from being “on” for many days in a row. And late night shenanigans. (I’m not saying that I took part in late night shenanigans at each conference, but there were many this past weekend and I had a blast. I just didn’t get much sleep.) I went to bed at 9 p.m. last night. I don’t recall the last time that happened.
Process the information. My bags from the conference are not all unpacked yet. I just didn’t have the energy to process everything – mentally and physically. Today I’m going through some of what I learned this past weekend and trying to put it into play on some work social accounts.
Hydrate yo’ self. I did a mostly good job about drinking water this weekend, but I was just trying to survive my drive home on Sunday and I drank ALL THE CAFFEINE. So today it’s back on the water train. I’ve had my one Diet Pepsi and it’s water for the rest of the day.
Follow up with your friends. I miss my girls. There was a ton of build-up before Type-A and we had several epic text messaging threads before and during the conference. The texting and Facebook messages have slowed today, but we’re still conversing.
Reconnect with your family. I honestly didn’t talk to my family much this weekend. In April, I tried to Facetime with my husband and son multiple times. It didn’t work out well. It just didn’t work each time. And when I called and talked to my son, he didn’t want to get off the phone. (I’m fairly certain it ended in a meltdown.) I abandoned technology last night, and I’ve promised to do the same again this evening – until I’m over the post-conference haze and my family is sick of me once again.
Try not to stress. Your spouse/significant other probably didn’t do everything exactly the way you would have. I saw a placemat that had gone through the dishwasher (and it clearly states on the back that it is NOT dishwasher safe.) And laundry was hanging, but not in the same places I would have put it. (I had to go through my husband’s side of the closet to find my pants this morning.) It’s ok. As long as your home is still standing, all will be fine.
Jot your blog post ideas out. I have so many since leaving Type-A. I even had a few from work conferences I attended. Get the ideas out on paper or in a document on your computer. You’ll have time soon enough to focus on them, but you don’t want to lose those brilliant ideas, do you?
Unpack and organize! This is so hard for me. I unpacked my suitcase last night. No problem. But the bags I came home with that contain papers, business cards and products? I dropped them in our guest room. Tonight after the toddler goes to bed, I will go through and recycle all the papers that I don’t need. I’ll organize the business cards into blogs I need to follow, brands I want to work with, and recycle everything that I just don’t need. Any items I received that I know I’m not going to need, I’ll give them to someone who can use them or donate them. I can’t hold onto everything.
Start planning for that next conference. Type-A 2015 has already been announced and I can’t wait for passes to go on sale. It just happens to fall the days after my birthday. Time to plan for my next birthday celebration conference!
If you attended Type-A this past weekend, how have you been coping with re-entry into the real world? (I have to admit. I’m not handling it very well! All I want to do is sleep. Maybe sleep with my laptop, because surely I can blog through osmosis, right?)
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Re entry is so brutal! I try to rest (although I do love reading the post con posts like this one!) and just veg out. I am always bursting with ideas though, so I keep a Moleskin handy to write them down instead of jumping right back on the computer.
I have a running list of draft posts in WordPress. And I keep my planner nearby when I don’t have computer access. So many thoughts!
I’m glad I am not the only one that has a hard time with re-entry. I block out several days after events (depending on how involved I am with them) where I do nothing but veg.
I am headed out of town for the weekend soon and these are just good tips in general. I am already having tiny panic attacks about the state of the house and children upon my arrival home and I haven’t even left yet!
I rescheduled our housecleaning service because I just couldn’t deal with it this week. š Re-entry is HARD.
Late night shenanigans. bahahaha!
I miss them already and you!!!! I am not sure I can wait a full year for us all to get together again.
XO <3
Love it! These are such great tips. I need to do the “sleep” thing. I’m still so totally tired. I had so much fun with you and the rest of the girlies. Can’t wait until next year.
I am not doing well. I think that my brain has made the wrong decision and has decided to go on vacation. I miss you. I miss the rum. I miss it all.
I miss the rum. I miss the constant access to all of my friends. š
Re-entry has been a challenge! I have to keep pulling myself away from the Type-A 2014 FB group. I just want to connect and connect and connect. And, yes, I definitely need to start going to bed earlier. Staying up fairly late still because of the pull of the computer to be on FB or writing posts or responding to emails, etc. It’s all still pumped up energy from the weekend and good, but I need to tame it a bit. š
Glad we got to meet in person!! Hopefully we’ll bump into each other at a future event (NCBN maybe?) in the future.
All I want to do is hang out with my online friends! And we definitely need to see each other in the near future!!
This is the first time I unpacked my bag right after coming home after a conference. It helped me to get back to my usual normal. Also, I took the next day off to rest that helped a lot. You were dead on about hydrating!
I wish I had taken Monday off (I came home Sunday.) I had to head straight back to work, though. Next year, I will take time off!!